![]() Enter mind games, covert manipulation tactics, and all-around unpredictability. Sometimes, Twos will overstep boundaries on purpose to test the validity or strength of a particular relationship. Many popular culture personas including (but not limited to) the love-stricken psychopath and overly-attached girlfriend highlight extreme cases of the unhealthy Two. Under unhealthy levels of stress, Twos disintegrate in the direction of the Eight, and become overly controlling, to the point where they can appear tyrannical-in the sole pursuit of love and affection. The way to healing lies in acceptance and forgiveness. During traumatic and emotionally taxing events, such as a broken or severed relationship, Twos may go through a period where they debate whether to hold onto what once was, or eliminate and repress negative feelings. ![]() Through an accumulation of sentimental photographs, journals, and other miscellaneous items, Twos preserve the past in order to relive it during stressful times of the present. They also might have sudden and explosive bouts of anger over feeling taken for granted. They may have periods of being overly people-pleasing, needy, or clingy. Wherever they tread, it seems that someone has a favor to ask of them-whether it’s looking after people, pets, plants, or even inanimate objects.Īlthough well-intentioned, Twos at an average level tend to fear that they constantly fail to do enough for others that the love they worked so hard to secure will suddenly disappear without reason or warning. Their warm, open nature often leads strangers to approach them for directions or to take photos. At this point, they’re fully able to recognize the differences between their inner voice and the voices of parents, friends, significant others, or society.Īt normal levels, Twos take extra care in identifying others’ needs to be a “good” friend and cheerfully lend a hand whenever they’re asked to. As a result, their intrapersonal intelligence grows and flourishes. They learn to love themselves as well as others and are often joyous, grateful, and modest.Īs Twos transform into self-actualized individuals outside of their personal relationships, they gain a stronger sense of self-awareness. They’re willing to use and tap into their hidden creative gifts and sensitivity to be innovative, artistic, or offer insightful advice to inspire others and gently touch their hearts.Īt this stage, Twos stop pushing themselves to be “all things to all people.” They learn it’s healthy and absolutely necessary to take care of themselves, and confidently stand up for their own needs. Healthy Twos integrate in the direction of the Four and become incredibly creative and self-aware. The Enneagram model of personality identifies three distinct levels of health for each type: healthy, normal, and unhealthy. They have a strong influence over important decisions, especially during critical times, when standing between a fork in the road. Values are the core beliefs that make up the most important aspects of life. Basic Desire: To give love out to others and receive love in return.Basic Fear: To feel unwanted and not needed by others.Disintegrates into the Eight (The Challenger) under stress.Integrates into the Four (The Individualist) under growth.Can have a One or Three wing: 2w1 and 2w3.Part of the Heart Triad (along with Enneatypes Three and Four).An Enneagram 2 Video to Sum Everything Up…Įstimated reading time: 7 minutes A Quick Overview of the Enneagram 2:.Type 2 Behavior Under Unhealthy Levels of Maturity:.Type 2 Behavior Under Normal Levels of Maturity:.Type 2 Behavior Under Healthy Levels of Maturity:.Not sure what your enneagram type is? Take our new personality questionnaire here! ![]() Although they sometimes push themselves too much and deny their own needs, Twos eventually learn how to consciously think and feel for themselves, which is the pinnacle of their self-development. Because of this, it’s important for Twos to face and combat their underlying fear of worthlessness.Īt the core of their being, Twos strive to use genuine affection and connection to leave the people of their community in a better place than it was yesterday. They can sometimes overextend themselves to acquire (and sustain) affection from others, which may eventually lead to burnout or other psychosomatic conditions. Generous and emotionally aware, Twos seek out opportunities to make a positive difference and touch the hearts of others. ![]() They may expect others to reciprocate their efforts and are deeply hurt when it doesn’t happen. Underneath the surface, Twos feel that they must give, help, empathize, or self-sacrifice to “win” love and acceptance from others. They’re ready to jump in and lend a helping hand whenever it’s needed, and actively search for ways to improve the lives of others. The Helper (Enneagram 2 Type) is a selfless and caring mentor figure in the lives of many.
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